It may be that you have not been making decisions with your multiple intelligences, accessing your intuition and inner wisdom.
Here is a brief insight into one of the models from the course:
You can sign up and get started here: https://dr-suzanne-henwood-integrated-learning.teachable.com/p/embodied-decision-making
Embodied Decision Making is a self Directed course on the Teachable platform to enable you to explore Embodied Decision Making.
This course brings together my learning over the last ten years or so and offers you some simple, practical tools to use in your own life.
The course is a mix of reading, videos, links to useful sites (for those who want to go further and deeper) and practical exercises. I share with you tools from my tool box along with some examples of where these have been used in practice.